Deployed to Iraq and trying to keep it fun.

December 10, 2009 - 04:12 PM

Gina, I have been married for almost three years, my wife is very conservative when it comes to sex. I want to make sure that her sex drive is satisfied while I am here, I would like to try web cam sex but she said that would be wierd. I got her to buy a toy but she doesn't want me to see her use it....help me out here. I wanna keep the spark alive while I am here.

Gina Says

December 11, 2009 - 9:45 AM

Hey, well if you're looking to keep the spark alive and want to try some webcam'ing with here, the first thing is to make sure she feels comfortable with it. Let her gradually try it by maybe a flash, and working up from there. She may not feel comfortable 'performing' for you as she may see it as 'degrading' or 'slutty'. 

Also you may want to explain your interest in keeping the spark in your relationship to your wife while you are overseas.

Hope that helps,

XOXO Gina