My Wife Doesn\'t Want Sex?

December 6, 2009 - 12:12 PM

ok my wife NEVER wants to have sex anymore! we have 3 kids together and our love life has been good until about 2-3 years ago. is there anything i can do or buy to give her so she would want it more? when i ask why she dont want it she just says she dont like it anymore but we used to have sex 3-4 times a day. CAN YOU HELP ME?

Gina Says

December 9, 2009 - 2:02 PM

Hi there,

While it's not uncommon for women to lose their sex drive after childbirth, having no sex drive at all could be a potentially serious issue, at best it leads to sexual frustration in your relationship, at worst it could drive you both apart. Permanently. 

Another question is how much of the daily housework does she do, if she cooks, cleans, watches over 3 kids all day, and manages other affairs such as the bills, this could simply be too much for here and her drive is simply lost after she is finished the day's tasks. See if you can help out taking care of dinner or another meal if you're not home in time for supper.

Also, try other things that are sexually related and intimate but don't involve intercourse. Massages after a long day watching 3 rugrats can be a tiresome task. A Massage Oil will relax her, and she's back in your arms as well!

Hope that helps! 

XOXO Gina