How to reach an orgasm is as unique and varied as the person trying to reach their climax. While some can reach orgasms easier, some may find they can have more orgasms due to a shorter refractory period, which is most common for men. Women may find they have a harder time to reach an orgasm, but their orgasm is typically longer in duration and can prove to be a more powerful experience.

For Men: The refractory period is the amount of time it takes until a male can achieve rigidity in his penis and achieve another orgasm. While most men usually last just one orgasm, steps can be taken to control ejaculation, and thus last longer. By controlling your ejaculation you can have an orgasm without ejaculation or cumming.

Men can orgasm through repeated stimulation of the penis, either with a hand, oral stimulation, or penetration of the vagina or anus.
For masturbatory purposes men can use a Penis Sleeve and lubrication to simulate sex with a parter, this can prove particularly useful for the purposes of orgasm control to increase orgasms and the duration before climax is reached.

Men can also reach orgasm through repeated contact with the prostate gland that is similar to the full body orgasm felt by women.
Additionally, men can also reach climax through anal stimulation from another penis, or a strap-on known colloquially as 'pegging'.

For Women:
While it may appear that women may have a more difficult time in reaching their climax levels, women are generally believed to have longer orgasms. There are various steps and methods which can be employed for women to reach an orgasm; an orgasm can be reached through non-penetration stimulation, and penetration.

Oral stimulation: Through oral play of the Clitoris (cunnilingus) or anus, it is entirely possible for women to reach their climax.
Breasts: It has been documented that women can achieve mild to high orgasmic sensations through caressing of the breasts. While the breasts are being stimulated, oxytocin is released which allows the nipples to become erect.

Penetration: With penetration of a penis or erotic toy, in either the vagina or anus, women can have a varied levels of orgasms that are entirely dependent on how their body responds. While steps can be taken to focus specifically with the G Spot which varies in size from woman to woman but is located in the anterior of the vaginal walls 2-3 inches (5-7cm) inside.