Pleasure.

January 29, 2010 - 11:11 AM

gina. my boyfriend can't last that long & it's really hard for me to get off. any suggestions of how i can please him & he can still please me?

Gina Says

January 29, 2010 - 1:01 PM

You may need to match up with your speed a bit differently. Think of it this way, if he can only run the first 10 miles of a marathon, and you need to run the whole 26 miles, the both of you have two options.

You can start out together, have him finish and subsequently drop out, or he can start the race with you at around the last 6 miles so you finish the 'race' together.

Essentially he's going to stimulate you until you're close and then he gets stimulation from you, then your climaxes are closer together. Another option is to get him some Desensitizing Spray to let him last longer. 

Another really important thing to not underestimate is that many women (upwards of 75%) require additional clitoral stimulation to achieve an orgasm. You may want to try a Bullet Vibrator during intercourse.

I really hope that helps.